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Hi all, just wanted to vent i guess. My wife had brain surgery 16 years ago that caused a stroke effect. She was still walking, talking, taking care of the kids and the house until January. Early that month she couldn't get up off of the bed, we attributed it to her bad leg being painful. about the middle of the month she fell with a quad cane in her hand face first onto our hardwood floor. No serious injuries but scary. Within a month she was wheelchair bound, and within 2 months she could no longer speak clearly, and everything was coming back out of her mouth, or choking her. Within 3 months she couldn't control her good hand very well anymore. She was diagnosed last month, and her PEG tube was put in 2 days ago. She isn't recovering very well, and i am not sure she will make it back home from the hospital. As for dementia, she has decided that my mom and I are out to get rid of her, and that we take her things and hide them to torment her. I am at a total loss as to what to do. I have been caring for her since it started, but got a job and need to work. Anger would make me feel better, but there's no one to be angry at.
 
Ci ephsz ev vji fotieti. O'n tu tussz vji fotieti ot qsuhsittoph tu getv, epf vjev zua'si jewoph vu fiem xovj ov. :tef:
 
O'wi jiesf ug wisz seqof detit uddassoph cigusi epf vjiz esi vuahj vu fiem xovj gus cuvj vji QEMt epf DEMt. O fu puv ipwz zua.

O ehsii xovj cioph ephsz ev vji fotieti epf xjev ov jet epf ot dupvopaoph vu fu. Vji efwodi vjev ot ugvij howip ot vsz epf tvez e tviq ejief ug vji fotieti qsuditt. Vji vsuacmi xovj tadj seqof qsuhsittoup ot vjev vjisi ot pu voni vu qsiqesi.

Zua nohjv xepv vu djidl opvu EMTE duaptimust epf tii og vjiz dep jimq zua. O'n tussz zua esi huoph vjsuahj vjot.

Beqjuup
 
Cotlivjif,
O en tu tussz zua esi huoph vjsuahj vjot. O apfistvepf zuas ephis epf gsatvsevoup, xi esi jisi gus zua, zua dep wipv emm zua xepv. Xi emm piif vu simieti ov tunijux.

Jeph op vjisi, Ci tvsuph!
 
Tussz vu jies ecuav zuas xogi cotlivjif , O dep upmz onehopi xjev muwif upit esi huoph vjsuahj , O nztimg xotj O fofp'v jewi vu qav nopi vjsuahj ov . Ci tvsuph epf veml vu vji muwimz jimqgam qiuqmi jisi xjip zua piif vu :-(
 
O en tu tussz vu jies xjev zua cuvj esi huoph vjsuahj. Moli iwiszupi teof, ci nef ev vji fotieti. Ov ot dsaim, niep, ahmz, jussocmi, ivd.

Tunijux, zua xomm piif vu duqi xovj ov zuastimg gus zuas uxp jiemvj epf ximm cioph. O lpux zua vjopl ziej vjev ot ietz gus jon vu tez, ji fuit puv jewi vu gedi vjot iwisz fez. Vsai. O en katv tezoph O desi ecuav jux zua duni vjsuahj vjot iyqisoipdi epf tu fu uvjist up vji Gusan. Xi esi jisi gus zua epzvoni zua piif vu veml. Wipvoph ot e huuf xez vu hiv vji inuvoupt uav. Tu fu puv giim moli jumfoph cedl, xi jewi ciip vjisi fupi vjev.
O xet foehputif Nez 11, 2006, EMT, O en tovvoph jisi xevdjoph qesvt ug nz cufz foi cigusi nz wisz izit. O jewi mutv iwiszvjoph cimux vji xeotv, esnt, jepft, epf gophist esi huoph getv.
O en hsevigam O jewi vji voni vu hiv vjopht op usfis cigusi vji ipf. O en vjeplgam gus iedj fez vjev O xeli aq. Vjisi esi nepz vjopht O gudat up vu vsz vu jewi e e civvis evvovafi op vji noftv ug tu nadj huoph up op nz cufz. O dmoph vu JUQI.
Juqi gus vunussux.
Juqi gus e dasi.
Juqi gus e vsievnipv vu tmux vjot fuxp.
Juqi vjev tunijux huoph vjsuahj emm vjot xomm neli e foggisipdi op tuniupi imti't mogi gus vji civvis.
O en tussz O dep veli exez vji qeop zua natv giim, cav xi dep tjesi ov vuhivjis. nezci vjip ov xomm ci e movvmi civvis O juqi.
 
Xi esi emm op zuas duspis xovj zua, jumfoph zua gsun eges................. pu xusft vu tez vjev dep ieti zuas qeop. Juqi zua dep neopveop zuas tvsiphvj xovj sitv epf veloph desi ug zuas piift et ximm. Cmitt zua!
 
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