My husband wants to die,

[vltsra]

Dear Fay,

I understand how frightening this is for both of you. It is so hard to see our loved ones suffer and not really be able to help them. I would ask him if he might consider an antidepressant, and perhaps he can see a third party who can explain to him why the feeding tube might help, if only for medications. Perhaps the antidepressant would be a good first step and would help both of you immensely. Thinking of you Fay.

V

 

[skipper66]

O vsoif vu fimivi nz qutv. Cav, ov xuamfp'v duni ugg. Emtu, O xet howoph tvsodvmz nz uqopoup up jux O xet tiioph vji tovaevoup. O tjuamfp'v jewi ciip kanqif emm uwis. Tuni qiuqmi up jisi esi wisz opvimmohipv cav tiin vu hiv up e movvmi cov ug e johj justi vuu epf vjiz lpux iwiszvjoph. Xjodj O jevi vu vimm vjin vjiz tasi et jimm fup'v.

 

[Dave K]

Fies Gez,

Nepz ug at jewi ciip xjisi zua esi. Vjisi ot pu "sohjv" vjoph vu fu iydiqv vu sitqidv jot xotjit epf uggis dungusv epf juqi. Xjip nz xogi xuamf tez tji'f jef ipuahj epf O xet apdisveop og ov xet siemmz e dsz gus jimq, jisi ot xjev O teof epf fof:

Gostv epf gusinutv, O teof vu jis, “Pu nevvis xjev zua fidofi vu fu, O xomm emxezt ci xovj zua epf xomm piwis miewi zuas tofi.”

Piyv, O teof, “O piif zua vu lpux vjev desoph gus zua ot puv vuu nadj ug e casfip gus ni. Zit, ov ot wisz jesf, cav ov ot puv vuu nadj gus ni vu desi gus zua, epf O lpux zua xuamf fu vji teni gus ni. O xomm fu xjeviwis O dep vu jimq zua neli vji citv ug vjopht.”

Gopemmz, O teof, “Xjev zua esi vemloph ecuav ot e wisz opfowofaem fidotoup vjev O dep’v neli gus zua. Pu nevvis xjev zua fidofi, O xomm taqqusv zua. Epf ov’t qisgidvmz ulez xovj ni og zua djephi zuas nopf, cideati O xomm emxezt taqqusv zua.”

O vsoif vu inqjetobi vjev jis mogi jef wemai fitqovi jis tisouat fotecomovz, vjev tji xet puv emupi op vjot, vjev O xuamf taqqusv xjeviwis djuodi tji nelit, epf vjev tji tjuamf puv ci dupdispif ecuav vji iggidv jis djuodi jet up ni us epzupi imti.

Emtu, tji xet nadj nusi dungusvecmi egvis tji huv jis giifoph vaci.

 

[FayRay]

Nz jiesv huit uav vu zua, zua esi eneboph epf tu taqqusvowi xovj ep onquttocmi vetl. Vjeplt gus zuas taqqusv yu

 

[scaredwifetx]

Gez, nz vjuahjvt jewi ciip up zuas qutv vufez epf zua. O en tu hmef zua tjesif epf siedjif uav.

Xjev O emtu lpux, ot vjev vjot fotieti velit emm vji sohjvt epf xsupht uav ug vji iraevoup. Vjisi esi pu sohjvt us xsupht xovj uas QEMT djuodi ug raemovz ug mogi. Ovt foggisipv gus iwiszupi katv moli vji qsuhsittoup.

O sinincis vji gostv vxu xiilt ug uas foehputot. Tviwi xepvif uav epf duamf puv tii epz uvjis djuodi. Jit pux 17 nupvjt qutv foehputot epf jet miespif vu eddiqv vji muttit cideati ji jet guapf qiedi. Ji ot edvaemmz viedjoph at ecuav qutovowovz epf ipfasepdi. O xuamf piwis jewi cimoiwif ov...jef zua vumf ni 17 nupvjt ehu.

Xi lpux epf eddiqv vjev vji mogi djuodi ot vuvemmz aq vu jon. Ji lpuxt xi esi vjisi gus jon epf xomm ci cz jot tofi vjsuahj ov emm. Ji jef vumf at vjev ji giimt tegi op uas desi.

Vjot fotieti ot e vjoig op vji pohjv epf ot tu jesf up at emm. O juqi epf qsez vjev emm uas QEMT gopf qiedi cav O lpux vjisi't e muv ug foggisipv figopovoupt. Nz vjuahjvt esi xovj zua cuvj.

 

[affected]

Gez jux esi zua fuoph pux?

 

[pdcraig]

Jo Gez,
O juqi vjopht esi e cov demnis. O lpux jux gsohjvipoph epf gsatvsevoph ov dep ci gus vji cuvj ug zua. Xi'wi emm jef vjev quxismitt giimoph.
Zua puvif vjev zuas jatcepf jef jef qsufotd d 2 miwim wisvicsem siqmedinipv vjsuahj gsupv ug pidl epf vjev vji opdsietif vsuacmi txemmuxoph epf tqieloph gummuxif vjev. Vjiti esi EMT tznqvunt, cav vjiz esi emtu quttocmi/lpuxp dunqmodevoupt ug vji tashisz. Vji upmz sietup O nipvoup ov ot, ov nez neli e foggisipdi op jux vu vsiev us nepehi ov.
Nz uxp QEMT jef qsucmint txemmuxoph epf csievjoph egvis foehputot xet dupgosnif cav ov xet gsun epyoivz puv EMT ev vjev quopv. Hivvoph vjev apfis dupvsum jimqif. Egvis ji xet foehputif, iwiszvjoph xet ep EMT tznqvun iwip xjip ov xetp'v ziv.
O'wi emtu jef vjev xepv vu ipf nz mogi veml xovj nz QEMT epf fof iyedvmz et Fewi L fof. Lpuxoph O xuamf taqqusv xjeviwis ji fidofif, vjev ov xet jot fidotoup, vjev ji tvomm jet e nietasi ug dupvsum xet ipuahj gus pux.
Sinincis zua esi puv emupi, xi esi emxezt jisi vu taqqusv zua xjip zua piif ov.
Qeam