I was a Cals and I encouraged my wife to get a feeding tube. I stayed with her in the hospital. It was for the most part a painless operation and the tube was easy to use and get her her medications, food and water and let us concentrate on living. It was not difficult and allowed us to have...
I am a kindred spirit to you and it is wonderful you are putting in effort. Rest assured she sees it.
Accompany her. More important than what you do is your loving presence and sharing with her. It is a wonderful gift to her and a gift for your heart you will treasure forever. Hope this helps.