SN2024
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- May 15, 2024
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- Reason
- Loved one DX
- Diagnosis
- 05/2024
- Country
- CA
- State
- ON
- City
- London
I have been exploring these forums, feeling both grateful and overwhelmed. My father was diagnosed with ALS last week by a specialized neurologist and has become the patient of an ALS clinic through this process. I attended the appointment with him, knowing this was the probable diagnosis based on his symptoms, how they have progressed, and that we have a family history of ALS (and fronto-temporal dementia which is considered to be connected to some forms of genetic ALS).
His condition has progressed exactly like so many descriptions of ALS diagnosis: foot drop that was considered a temporary nerve injury and then persisted and worsened, a medical professional suggesting it might not go away and may have been from a stroke, the onset of slurred and strained speech and swallowing issues - and then his diagnosis. We were not given the charts of nerve function like I have seen others posting, and I live several provinces away from where he does (in Canada) but will be flying to support him as best I can as often as I can. He has been single and living alone, and avoided sharing information about his physical struggles with his children - so the state of his progression only became known to us when he recently visited my uncle's for Easter dinner.
The appointment at which he was diagnosed was originally scheduled to address his foot drop, but given the progression of his symptoms and that they run an ALS clinic at the centre, the tests advanced to address the likelihood of ALS rapidly during the several hours we spent there. He was using a cane and a hiking stick to walk when he arrived at his appointment, the following day I got him a rollator/walker (my dad is stubbornly independent and will likely use this as long as he possibly can) and we went to a lab where he had his blood taken to test for genetic markers. He had an MRI just yesterday, and I'm doing my best to support him to begin accessing services that will help him with his needs as things progress. Currently he is relying a lot on his arms to support him moving around, was having falls using just a cane which had become insufficient, and his speech and swallowing are also affected. A year ago, July, we were hiking up a mountain together.
I am trying to be a bit vague about locations and things, as he is still somewhat in denial about his diagnosis and I want to respect his privacy. He has had mild signs of early onset dementia which my siblings and I have been keeping an eye on for a few years, and which he is also in denial of. It had been my plan to encourage him to seek medication that would slow the progression of dementia, before everything else came to light - because of our family history I believe that these symptoms will be monitored by his medical team now. He is still quite lucid, however, and empowering him to address his needs as someone who has always been very independent is one of my primary goals at this stage.
I am wondering if PALS, CALS, or family members (is there an acronym for this?) have also experienced denial of symptoms? At times he speaks about his current physical condition as though the only symptom is foot drop in one foot, but at this point he has foot drop on both sides and struggles to lift his knees, with one leg worse than the other. If you're a PALS, what kind of support from loved ones helped you accept the progression of your symptoms?
I am also wondering about management of pain and cramping in his legs, and swelling he is experiencing in his stronger leg - I think because he has been more mobile now that he has the rollator. He's taking magnesium and some other supplements, but I am wondering about solutions like alternating hot and cold packs, massage, and what might be the most effective over-the-counter painkillers.
I know we will receive more information from the ALS clinic he is now a patient of, but they seem swamped and promised additional information last week which he still has not received. I'd like to be able to offer support as we navigate medical system challenges, and to lessen his pain and keep his quality of life as high as it can be for each day moving forward. I provided him information and he contacted the ALS Society (Canadian, province-based), and he will be contacting a provincial healthcare program that supports access to mobility aids.
Not sure what else to say, grateful for advice and insights <3
His condition has progressed exactly like so many descriptions of ALS diagnosis: foot drop that was considered a temporary nerve injury and then persisted and worsened, a medical professional suggesting it might not go away and may have been from a stroke, the onset of slurred and strained speech and swallowing issues - and then his diagnosis. We were not given the charts of nerve function like I have seen others posting, and I live several provinces away from where he does (in Canada) but will be flying to support him as best I can as often as I can. He has been single and living alone, and avoided sharing information about his physical struggles with his children - so the state of his progression only became known to us when he recently visited my uncle's for Easter dinner.
The appointment at which he was diagnosed was originally scheduled to address his foot drop, but given the progression of his symptoms and that they run an ALS clinic at the centre, the tests advanced to address the likelihood of ALS rapidly during the several hours we spent there. He was using a cane and a hiking stick to walk when he arrived at his appointment, the following day I got him a rollator/walker (my dad is stubbornly independent and will likely use this as long as he possibly can) and we went to a lab where he had his blood taken to test for genetic markers. He had an MRI just yesterday, and I'm doing my best to support him to begin accessing services that will help him with his needs as things progress. Currently he is relying a lot on his arms to support him moving around, was having falls using just a cane which had become insufficient, and his speech and swallowing are also affected. A year ago, July, we were hiking up a mountain together.
I am trying to be a bit vague about locations and things, as he is still somewhat in denial about his diagnosis and I want to respect his privacy. He has had mild signs of early onset dementia which my siblings and I have been keeping an eye on for a few years, and which he is also in denial of. It had been my plan to encourage him to seek medication that would slow the progression of dementia, before everything else came to light - because of our family history I believe that these symptoms will be monitored by his medical team now. He is still quite lucid, however, and empowering him to address his needs as someone who has always been very independent is one of my primary goals at this stage.
I am wondering if PALS, CALS, or family members (is there an acronym for this?) have also experienced denial of symptoms? At times he speaks about his current physical condition as though the only symptom is foot drop in one foot, but at this point he has foot drop on both sides and struggles to lift his knees, with one leg worse than the other. If you're a PALS, what kind of support from loved ones helped you accept the progression of your symptoms?
I am also wondering about management of pain and cramping in his legs, and swelling he is experiencing in his stronger leg - I think because he has been more mobile now that he has the rollator. He's taking magnesium and some other supplements, but I am wondering about solutions like alternating hot and cold packs, massage, and what might be the most effective over-the-counter painkillers.
I know we will receive more information from the ALS clinic he is now a patient of, but they seem swamped and promised additional information last week which he still has not received. I'd like to be able to offer support as we navigate medical system challenges, and to lessen his pain and keep his quality of life as high as it can be for each day moving forward. I provided him information and he contacted the ALS Society (Canadian, province-based), and he will be contacting a provincial healthcare program that supports access to mobility aids.
Not sure what else to say, grateful for advice and insights <3