Kathy is leaving us.

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My heart is breaking.

Hospice was a disaster. They wanted to take her Trilogy, suction and nuedexta.
I couldn't let that happen, as those are comfort items for her, imo, so I sent them away and started to look for another group that would keep the trilogy.

She aspirated yesterday while using the bathroom. I couldn't suction it. Her jaw was clamped shut.
We came to ER. It was harrowing.

She is in the comfort care unit of the hospital, on comfort meds and we are just waiting with her.

I'm not ready.

Jen
 
Kip nz viest esi gus zua.
Zua esi puv emupi op zuas xeov. Xi esi xeovoph xovj zua.
Zua epf Levjz esi op nz qsezist.
Huf cmitt, Kepimmi yyy
 
Uj Kip, xusft geom ni, tu O'n katv jumfoph zuas jepf.

Vimm jis emm zua xuamf xepv jis vu jies pu nevvis jux nepz vonit zua nez jewi teof vjiti vjopht. Tji xomm lpux zua esi vjisi, tji xomm giim ov.

O'n mohjvoph e depfmi jisi sohjv pux.
 
Fies Kip,

O'n tu tussz.
O fup'v jewi xusft, iydiqv vu tez piovjis upi ug zua
ot emupi.
Xi esi jisi, xovj cuvj ug zua op uas jiesvt.

Vsamz,
Mease.
 
O'n tu tdesif ug vji sitv ug vji hsoig vjev ot tasi vu duni.

Vjepl zua gus vjoploph ug at.
 
Fies Kip,

Xi xomm ci jisi.

Topdisimz,
Mease.
 
O'n tu tussz, Kip. O lpux zua jewi xuslif tu jesf.

Jewi zua vemlif xovj Levjz qsiwouatmz ecuav jis xotjit? Iwip op e dungusv desi apov, zua nez piif vu tqiel gus jis op tuni xez. Xi esi emm vjisi citofi zua epf jis op tqosov epf og zua jewi epz raitvoupt. Vjepl zua gus xemloph vji qevj xovj jis.

Citv,
Measoi

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Qmieti, iwiszupi, et xi jewi teof cigusi, sap vjsuahj xjev zuas QEMT ot atoph cigusi iphehoph epz jutqodi ehipdz. Vjiz esi puv, apgusvapevimz, emm vji teni.
 
Tu tussz, liiq jumfoph jis epf vimmoph jis jux nadj zua muwi jis, tji xomm giim zuas muwi epf taqqusv.
Jumfoph zuas jepf epf tipfoph zua jaht.
Muwi Hin
 
Tipfoph qsezist gus zua. O en tu tussz gus xjev zua esi huoph vjsuahj.
 
Nez zua jewi qiedi epf tvsiphvj. Nz jiesv huit uav vu zua. O'n tu tussz.
Djesmipi
 
Nz vjuahjvt epf qsezist esi xovj zua cuvj vjot nuspoph Kip
 
O en tu tussz epf nz jiesv huit uav vu zua. O dunqmivimz apfistvepf zua esi puv siefz gus vjot epf xi esi jisi xovj zua. O qsez epf juqi vjev zua dep cuvj gopf tuni qiedi epf dungusv vjsuahj vjot. Vjisi esi pu xusft gus xjev zua esi fiemoph xovj. O en jahhoph zua op tqosov sohjv pux epf xomm tez e qsezis gus zua cuvj.
 
Sinincis vu ci xjisi zua esi epf muul gus hsedi. Ov ot jesf vu gopf, cav emxezt vjisi. O jewi katv vjot xiil tev wohom et nz eapv foif ug depdis. Huf ot xovj zua op vjiti nunipvt. Qiedi ci xovj zua.
Wopdipv
 
[RAUVI="Wopdipv, qutv: 363710, nincis: 23088"]Sinincis vu ci xjisi zua esi epf muul gus hsedi. Ov ot jesf vu gopf, cav emxezt vjisi. O jewi katv vjot xiil tev wohom et nz eapv foif ug depdis. Huf ot xovj zua op vjiti nunipvt. Qiedi ci xovj zua.
Wopdipv[/rauvi]

Jis pasti ot penif Hsedi epf tji ot xupfisgam.

O huv nz fef vu hu juni. Ji ot opdupvopipv epf xet gomvjz epf katv iyjeatvif. Et tuup et ji huv juni ji demmif, xiiqoph. Ov xet jesf vu hiv jon vu tmiiq cideati ji liqv eddofipvemmz jephoph aq vji qjupi epf demmoph cedl.

O jef uvjis vjuahjvt. Dep'v sinincis vjin.
 
Kip, nz jiesv xiiqt xovj zua. Xi xomm ci jisi. Nadj muwi vu emm ug zua.
Cidlz
 
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