Neilswife
Active member
- Joined
- Aug 2, 2016
- Messages
- 46
- Reason
- Lost a loved one
- Diagnosis
- 06/2014
- Country
- US
- State
- TX
- City
- CP
Manhattanite, The "firsts" are all so difficult, but I felt an enormous sense of relief when all the firsts were over with. Of course that was replaced by another feeling of the intensity of the loss, but I feel it is something I must go through to process my grief. You are doing exactly what you need to do though to make it through those firsts and that is feel them no matter how painful they are. Don't be overwhelmed by the firsts -- just take them as they come one day at a time.