To Al, thanks for your reply, the answer to your question is we are waiting for an appointment, if its not here in the next week i am going to book a private one, we can claim it back through his medical insurance, your right when you say its an accident waiting to happen,He has damaged the car on numerous occasions, he drove off at the car wash with the brush and hose wrapped around the wheels and broke the bumper off etc. He has muscle spasms and a tremor in his left hand when resting although only slight, i cannot count the number of pots,plates and glasses he has broken over the past year, he even throws out the cutlery when we have take away, he breaks keys in locks, then tries to blame someone else, he fell out walking the dog yeasterday and came home covered in mud, he ran over the lawnmower wire twice, fell off the ladders in the garden when cutting the Lyandi's nearly cutting his hand off. he cannot hold a cup straight he spills it all over, we now have laminate floors fitted i had to get rid of the carpets, he has nearly electrocuted himself twice, left the gas on etc, i live in constant fear, I love him so much but do not know why he sits and bites picks and twitches, recently he has started to slur more, if he has a drink you think he is drunk but he has only had one? I can go on and on , where do i post all this to get any answers?